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What Real Success Is All About?

”SUCCESS is not about what you accomplished, but what you had given.”


SUCCESS is most commonly measured by the amount of wealth, career development and status in the society. Never they thought that success is not what you collected but what you had shared. The real happiness and fulfillment is achieved through giving.
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In reality, many people think they are successful when they are wealthy. Once they are rich, they tend to protect their wealth by acquiring more. They are afraid to lose their wealth, so by getting more they can spread their influence by the use of their money. Some of them even run for government office for protection, security and to acquire more. When they reach a certain level of attachment and affection to wealth and money, it’s the time they become greedy. Money becomes their god. They think being rich is success.
Most common misconception is “money can buy everything”. They thought money can buy happiness. Yet there were many successful and wealthy people died looking for happiness. They anticipate when they have money they’ll be successful in everything they want to do.

”Love of Money is the root of all evil.”


There are many people who worship their money. Their lives became too dependent with money. Money rule their world. They will do everything just to have more, even to the point of doing evil deeds for the sake of money. They never realize, the devil lured them to it.
What they don’t know, material wealth will stay in this world but they will pass. They won’t be able to bring those material things to their grave. Their wealth can’t even ressurect them when they die.
What real success is all about?
Find real happiness in giving. True successful people are happy and satisfied with what they have, and more glad when they give. The joy in giving makes a man fulfilled. It is more satisfying to help people who can’t return back what they owe. Choose to give people who are less capable of paying you back.

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Material wealth will be perished but spiritual wealth will be your ticket to heaven. Every time you see opportunity to give and do good deeds to others, grab it because all good intentions came from God. You may not see success fully in this world but you have a chance to experience success in eternity.

To God Be The Glory!


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You Are Not Poor!

Literally, you’ll see people experience their life suffer in poverty. They can’t comprehend why they have to live like that. The material needs are truly in scarcity and almost no food to put in their mouth. Who’s fault is this misery should point into. The intellectual people continue to state the fact that poverty is a sickness of the society but even them can’t do anything about it.
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It’s not your fault when you were born poor, but don’t allow yourself to die poor.


I believe, I don’t know if you’ll agree, that there is no person born poor especially those people who don’t have physical abnormalities. If you are complete physically and mentally, meaning you are not poor. You have the physical blessings given to you by our Creator. A person only have to use his capabilities and develop skills to equip him to do the necessary things to live a decent life.
However, there are pople even with a decent job and live a normal life still think they are poor. They still ask, why they don’t enjoy luxury the rich people experience. They envy those who have plenty of material possession.

“He is not poor who has little; he only desires much!”



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Human contentment is a struggle that commonly a person has to face to learn the true value of life. The material satisfaction is the focus of the human mind. The things and wealth of this world is very tempting, for every man, in satisfying the need of the flesh. Least of us know that there are better purpose man should accomplish.
Man is the most important creation in the universe. We possess all the tools to accomplish many things. Yet most of the time, we think, we live in scarcity. There are many blessings showered to us everyday that we fail to notice. Being healthy alone is a blessing that we can’t ecxchange for money. Living happily with our family is a wealth not all the people enjoy. We need to be thankful if we have three full meal a day eating with our love ones. We don’t need to dine to the most luxurious restaurant to be happy.
I remember a story told to us by my beloved brother in Christ. He said, a wealthy woman who was an owner of the biggest shoe manufacturing company in Marikina can’t enjoy her own made shoes because she lost her legs due to diabetes. He said, I’d rather be an ordinary man with two feet, even without any shoe to wear on, because when I use my body to work later on I can buy a pair of shoes.
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A man of God don’t worry about these material things, he don’t even worry for the food he’s going to eat for the day because he know God will always provide.
Hebrews 13:5
Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
Let’s live for what we have. God will surely shower us with His blessing if we follow his commandments and do good to others.
We are not poor because we receive many blessings every day, we just failed to notice it.

”Stop thinking you are less fortunate, in fact you are most blessed in the sight of God.”


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Right Way To Control My Emotion



I would like to share to you my article and I hope you'll like this piece of my story.
I had an officemate who was scolded by the owner of the company on a small error in his work. He was angry to our Boss, without thinking, he resigned. After a day he called me, he said he regret what he had done. I told him, he should not decide when his emotion was at its peak or low because he’ll end up making a wrong judgment.
When I was a young manager, I barely hold my emotion. I react to every situation aggressively. I thought my reasons were right. I don’t consider the feelings and emotions of other. However, one day I attended a workshop regarding Emotional Intelligence or Emotional Quotient that change my perception about my feelings and other people’s emotions.
Emotional Intelligence – is the ability to effectively understand and manage your own and other people’s emotions positively and constructively.
We were taught on how we will control our emotions to bring positive impact to people that they will surely like us rather than hate us. They showed us that major or leading industries attributes 85% - 90% of career and leadership success on high EQ. Sales and customer service personnel with high EQ were found to generate twice revenue of people with average EQ.

Personal Emotional Quotient


• We need to recognize and understand our own emotional state.
• We have to manage our emotions to achieve positive and productive outcome.
• We must inhibit or avoid negative response to provocation.
• We need to manage frustrations, stress, conflicts and adversities constructively.
• We must motivate and uplift oneself to pursue valuable goals.


Social Emotional Quotient


• We have to recognize and understand other people’s emotional state
• We need to respond appropriately and positively to other people’s emotion.
• We must build good rapport and interpersonal relationship with other people.
• We have to manage interpersonal differences and conflicts in positive way.
If we will learn how to use our EQ, we will be able to establish our own charisma. Most of the people who mastered their EQ build a good and lasting impression to others. This charisma factor will definitely seal your status and your own brand and style.
After the workshop, I was able to remember those pointers that I must use to help me manage my Emotional Quotient. And those knowledge I learned until now is a big help for me.






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Walk An Extra Mile




“If you serve an ungrateful master, serve him twice. If he compel yeh to walk a mile, walk another mile. If he does not reward you today, God will reward you tomorrow, a million folds.”
The secret of successful people is doing work or task beyond what is expected of them. Pushing themselves beyond the limits and boundaries. They walk an extra mile. They want to achieve more in the future so they perform well today.
However, there are people who feels doing more is unfair. When doing more they felt they are cheated. Don’t do what the mediocre do, they only perform base on what they are paid for. They find success unwilling to cooperate.
In life, people who wake up early and sleep late doing the best they can to accomplish things are promoted or rewarded. They are the envy of others, they call them leach, but seldom they realize these people go up in the ladder of success because of their untiring dedication to their works. They turn their career into passion.
They knew from childhood that the only way to reach their dreams are through hardwork. Exerting their effort is not a waste of time but the means to achieve their goals.
You would think why there are people who has a terror boss continue to work for them because they know this secret. They never rely on what their employer can give, but what God can give for them. They work for God not with anybody else. Obedience to your superior or employer is obedience to the Lord.
Jeremiah 17:7 Blessed is the man that trusteth in the Lord, and whose hope the Lord is.
If you want to become successful in every thing you do, you must be willing to take an extra road to walk, another mile or two. Don’t look at the hurdles, you’ll be able to overcome it as you go along with it. Look at your goals and not the struggles lies within it. Reach your own dreams not anyone else. Go for it you can always do it.
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Self Improvement







The kind of competitive environment we live in today calls for a little something extra from all of us. Simply having a college degree does not seem to be as important as before, anymore, as most workplaces look for hirees and candidates that have an additional skill or interest before they take them under their wings.
Whether it's a proficiency in particular software or a fluency in more than one language, employers are now obviously more impressed with someone with longer credentials. Self improvement, however, does not just mean equipping one's self with additional office-related skills. Whatever it is, it's goal is to help you achieve or learn something greater than what you already know and have.
Everyone would want to improve themselves. There isn't anybody in this world who would refuse an opportunity to be better at something, given man's nature of being always dissatisfied with his or her personal circumstances. Someone somewhere in the world would definitely like to have a better life, dream of getting a new car, fantasize about learning how to swim or do water ballet and imagine being able to multiply three digit numbers in less than 10 seconds.


In addition, self improvement is also a quest to get recognized and appreciated more. People are often dissatisfied with themselves and what they have because they feel envious of other people's fortune. They seek to improve themselves because they want to be at the spotlight even for just a short time, or, if they don't like that much attention, at least have somebody pat them on the back and tell them they have done a good job.
It is a way to reassure oneself that his or her capacity to learn is not limited and that he or she has the ability to advance and grow if only he or she puts his or her mind and heart into the undertaking.
Self improvement is not about beating everyone else in the game of life. It means being happy and satisfied with one's self. It means that life actually has a lot more to offer all of us than what we are currently enjoying and that we have the ability to achieve this if we work at it.
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Learn Self Confidence






Confidence is all important. Confidence in yourself will influence how other people see you, and the extent to which they trust you both as an individual, and as a part of a team. If you can put aside self doubt, and mistrust, and stop thinking that you ‘can’t do this or can’t do that’, you are on your way to self confidence and success.
Some people are just born oozing self confidence, and others develop it as they grow up and develop specific skills and abilities and establish their life path.
For others, however, it’s something that needs to be worked on as an adult. This may be because they have too often been told that they are useless, incapable etc. They may have been unfortunate enough to have overbearing parents or older siblings, or perhaps been bullied at school or by others in the neighborhood.
It can be hard to unlearn those views of yourself that have probably been internalized over many years. However, it is always, always worthshedding self doubt and re-learning about your self worth.
There are lots of ways that you can achieve this. Self hypnosis, using affirmations and neurolinguistic programming techniques are all possible aids to learning self confidence.
For all of them, however, you first of all need to understand that we, as humans, are programmed. Our brain and our conscious and sub-conscious minds operate very effectively. If you pile in to the brain statements about how useless we are, then the brain will effectively fill our data bank with this detail. If we ensure that our brain is told that we are able, can learn, and can achieve, then our data bank will reflect this.
If we then ask of ourselves ‘what sort of person am I’, it is the data in the brain that will give us the answer. So a data bank full of positive information will give positive answers.
Opening the channel to the subconscious is the key to internalizing the data. Try playing a tape or CD of affirmations when you are just about to go to sleep. Your brain has told your conscious mind that its time to sleep – which is an example of self hypnosis really. So your conscious mind switches off, and your subconscious mind is receptive.




This is the technique used to hypnotize people. When a hypnotist tells you that you are feeling sleepy and your eyes are closing, and you will listen to what is being said – this is exactly what you will do.
Your subconscious mind will accept the information it receives, and any instructions it receives. So you can be hypnotized into believing that you are a mouse, a dog, a horse etc. Equally, you can be convinced that you are sensible, capable, able and confident.Self hypnosis is really about learning how to open the door to your sub-conscious mind, and to transmit the information that you want – just the same way that someone else would do. Using tapes or CD’s is a good way of receiving the information you want.
Using affirmations is effective and can be done anywhere and any time. First thing in the morning, while you are getting
ready in the bathroom, look at yourself in the mirror and repeat your affirmations. For example:
I am a confident and capable person.
I am an achiever, and will be successful.
I work hard and deserve to succeed.
I find solutions when there are problems.
I am goal oriented and successful.
Repeating affirmations, whatever they are, has to be done on a regular basis, and with belief in what you are saying.
Self confidence is the key to learning new skills, progressing in your work and home life, and the foundation of all self development.
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Selling Excellence



I would like to share with you an article that I kept for a long time that guides me in my selling career. I practiced this guides in my selling profession that helped me closed a lot of sales until now. I don’t know who was the author of this article but surely it thought me a lot. For those who want to start their selling career please read completely to appreciate it. I hope this can help.
Many people are striving to improve themselves. People are reading self-improvement books; it is an indication that they are aware that to make themselves better, they have to continue improving their personal selling abilities.
Excellence in any selling situation will be achieved through building self-confidence, and it comes from knowledge. You have to know and understand yourself and your goals. You have to recognize and accept your weaknesses as well as your special talents. This requires a kind of personal honesty that not everyone is capable of doing.
In addition to knowing yourself, you must continue learning about others. Just as with yourself, you must be caring, forgiving and laudatory with people. In any sales effort, you must accept other people as they are, not as you would like for them to be. One of the most common faults of sales people is impatience when the prospective client is slow to understand or make a decision. The successful salesperson handles these situations the same as he would if he were asking a girl for a date, or even applying for a new job.
Learning your product, making a clear presentation to qualified prospects, and closing more sales will take a lot less time once you know your own capabilities and failings, and understand and care about the prospects you are calling upon.
Our society is based upon selling, and all of us are selling something all the time. We move up or stand still in direct relation to our sales efforts. Everyone is included, whether we're attempting to be a friend to a co-worker, a neighbor, or selling multi-million dollar real estate projects. Accepting these facts will enable you to understand that there is no such thing as a born salesman. Indeed, in selling, we all begin at the same starting line, and we all have the same finish line as the goal - a successful sale.
Most assuredly, anyone can sell anything to anybody. As a qualification to this statement, let us say that some things are easier to sell than others, and some people work harder at selling than others. But regardless of what you're selling, or even how you're attempting to sell it, the odds are in your favor. If you make your presentation to enough people, you'll find a buyer. The problem with most people seems to be in making contact - getting their sales presentation seen by, read by, or heard by enough people. But this really shouldn't be a problem, as we'll explain later. There is a problem of impatience, but this too can be harnessed to work in the salesperson's favor.
We have established that we're all salespeople in one way or another. So whether we're attempting to move up from forklift driver to warehouse manager, salesman to sales manager or from mail order dealer to president of the largest sales organization in the world, it's vitally important that we continue learning.
Getting up out of bed in the morning; doing what has to be done in order to sell more units of
your product; keeping records, updating your materials; planning the direction of further sales
efforts; and all the while increasing your own knowledge – all this requires a great deal of personal motivation, discipline, and energy. But then the rewards can be beyond your wildest dreams, for make no mistake about it, the selling profession is the highest paid occupation in the world!
Selling is challenging. It demands the utmost of your creativity and innovative thinking. The more success you want, and the more dedicated you are to achieving your goals, the more you'll sell. Hundreds of people the world over become millionaires each month through selling. Many of them were flat broke and unable to find a "regular" job when they began their selling careers. They've done it, and you can do it too!
Remember, it's the surest way to all the wealth you could ever want. You get paid according
to your own efforts, skill, and knowledge of people. If you're ready to become rich, then think
seriously about selling a product or service (prefer ably something exclusively yours) – something that you "pull out of your brain;" something that you write, manufacture or produce for the benefit of other people. But failing this, the want ads are full of opportunities for ambitious sales people. You can start there, study, learn from experience, and watch for the chance that will allow you to move ahead by leaps and bounds.

Here are some guidelines that will definitely improve your gross sales, and your gross income..
  1. If the product you're selling is something your prospect can hold in his hands, get it into his hands as quickly as possible. In other words, get the prospect "into the act." Let him feel it, weigh it, admire it.
  2. Don't stand or sit alongside your prospect. Instead, face him while you're pointing out the important advantages of your product. This will enable you to watch his facial expressions and determine whether and when you should go for the close. In handling sales literature, hold it by the top of the page, at the proper angle, so that your prospect can read it as you're highlighting the important points.
  3. With prospects who won't talk with you: When you can get no feedback to your sales presentation, you must dramatize your presentation to get him involved. Stop and ask questions such as, "Now, don't you agree that this product can help you or would be of benefit to you?" After you've asked a question such as this, stop talking and wait for the prospect to answer. It's a proven fact that following such a question, the one who talks first will lose, so don't say anything until after the prospect has given you some kind of answer. Wait him out!
  4. Prospects who are themselves sales people, and prospects who imagine they know a lot about selling sometimes present difficult selling obstacles, especially for the novice. But believe me, these prospects can be the easiest of all to sell. Simply give your sales presentation, and instead of trying for a close, toss out a challenge such as, "I don't know, Mr. Prospect - after watching your reactions to what I've been showing and telling you about my product, I'm very doubtful as to how this product can truthfully be of benefit to you." Then wait a few seconds, just looking at him and waiting for him to say something. Then, start packing up your sales materials as if you are about to leave. In almost every instance, your "tough nut" will quickly ask you, Why? These people are generally so filled with their own importance, that they just have to prove you wrong. When they start on this tangent, they will sell themselves. The more skeptical you are relative to their ability to make your product work to their benefit, the more they'll de mand that you sell it to them.If you find that this prospect will not rise to your challenge, then go ahead with the packing of your sales materials and leave quickly. Some people are so convinced of their own importance that it is a poor use of your valuable time to attempt to convince them.
  5. Remember that in selling, time is money! Therefore, you must allocate only so much time to each prospect. The prospect who asks you to call back next week, or wants to ramble on about similar products, prices or previous experiences, is costing you money. Learn to quickly get your prospect interested in, and wanting your product, and then systematically present your sales pitch through to the close, when he signs on the dotted line, and reaches for his checkbook. After the introductory call on your prospect, you should be selling products and collecting money. Any call backs should be only for reorders, or to sell him related products from your line. In other words, you can waste an introductory call on a prospect to qualify him, but you're going to be wasting money if you continue calling on him to sell him the first unit of your product. When faced with a reply such as, "Your product looks pretty good, but I'll have to give it some thought," you should quickly jump in and ask him what it is that he doesn't understand, or what specifically about your product does he feel he needs to give more thought. Let him explain, and that's when you go back into your sales presentation and make everything crystal clear for him. If he still balks, then you can either tell him that you think he's procrastinating, or that overall, you don't think the product will really benefit him, or it's purchase be to his advantage. You must spend as much time as possible calling on new prospects. Therefore, your first call should be a selling call with follow-up calls by mail or telephone (once every month or so in person) to sign him for reorders and other items from your product line.
  6. Review your sales presentation, your sales materials, and your prospecting efforts. Make sure you have a "door-opener" that arouses interest and "forces" a purchase the first time around. This can be an interest stimulator so that you can show him your full line, or a special marked-down price on an item that everybody wants; but the important thing is to get the prospect on your "buying customer" list, and then follow up via mail or telephone with related, but more profitable products you have to offer.
If you accept our statement that there are no born salesmen, you can readily absorb these
"GUIDES." When you realize your first successes, you will truly know that "salesman are made - not born."



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